Beautiful women...

I didn’t know who is Cao Thuy Duong until this morning when I began my daily dose of pictures of hot women in JPEG format. This is the link

Cao Thùy Dương vượt qua nỗi đau bị phụ bạc

“Khi tôi đang thăng hoa trong cả sự nghiệp và tình yêu, nhìn cuộc đời đầy màu hồng thì chính người tôi yêu lại ném tôi vào khoảng không đen tối. Anh có người đàn bà khác, thậm chí còn có con với họ” - Hoa hậu được bình chọn của Miss International cay đắng tâm sự.

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the following is based on my admitedlly limited and anecdotal experience plus endless discussions with friends, so I make no claims that anything I am about to write, is 100% definitive. If it is true, great. If not, oh well. Anyway, I’ll make my remark brief.

Cao Thuy Duong is probably very boring and character-less.

Believe it or not, after the first several dates, or began your journey as a happy couple, and after you’ve had slept with each other, you’ll begin to notice the girl’s personality. You’ll even begin to have conversations. During the initial courtship, these “conversations” are masked, and avoided through the magical effect of alcohol consumption. Yes, I don’t doubt that you talked to each other for hours. There were almost no silence, you say words, you laughed, etc..but it your ‘conversations’ were 70 percent flirting, 10 percents gossip, 15 percents lying and only perhaps 5 percent of substance. Replace ‘flirting’ with ‘trash-talk’, you will have the exact ratio of a presidential debate. Only after the flirting subside and the actual conversations begin, you will realize that the gorgeous girl is less entertaining than C-SPAN.

Which, lead me back to the commonly accepted tale that is “hot girls are usually boring”. To save me from angry comments like “I’m good looking and smart…”, or “My girlfriend/sister…”, please add “usually” or “in general” to most questionable sentences that will follow.

In my experience, a good personality is the result of trial and error. No-one is born with a personality. You learn and acquire it through living your life. The problem with hot girls is that this process never takes place because when an attractive girl says something stupid that needed to be correct, our response is often blinded by the fact that she's hot. A beautiful girl will hardly ever meet with rational truth, for no man in his right mind would argue with her. He might argue with an ugly woman and not hesitate to point out that she is stupid, as he has nothing to lose, but with a beautiful woman? probably never. Even in rare cases, when someone does challenge our hot girl’s rationality, it will not register in her mind, because it’s likely to come from an ugly someone.

While people build characters by engaging in enriching activities, reading books, self-reflecting, and seeking company of other interesting people, the hot, popular girl’s only routine of any day is to try making herself more physically attractive. While the ugly girl is at home reading the classics, hence getting uglier, the hot girl is online shopping for the latest cosmetic, or at the beach tanning, getting hotter.

But the good news is even hot girls are capable of pattern recognition. At one point, the babe will notice how short-lived, ephemeral all their romantic affairs have been. She will get tired of being dumped for more uglier, but more interesting kind. She will realize that look is not the only thing because for some reason, nobody keeps her around for long. Which is why you often find once-popular girls in their late prime suddenly trying to take the shortcut to personality. This includes nutcase religion (i.e Scientology), working for charity, silly spirituality (i.e yoga, meditation), etc.. There are many of these instances if you skim through ngoisao or kenh14. I am having trouble getting into the sites at the moment. So I will leave the looking part for you then.

My team won the Champion League yesterday. I heard the song on the radio today. I youtubed the song and found the video funny as hell. All is well.

-k

Comments

[Nguyen Phuong Thanh]

Anh giải thích gì thế? :D Nỗi đau khi bị phụ bạc của mọi người đều giống nhau mà.
Xét về góc độ nỗi đau, em thấy những người đẹp bình phục nhanh hơn những người xấu vì họ còn nhiều lựa chọn khác, còn người xấu thì chẳng có gì.:(
Em nghĩ cô này có tham gia thi hoa hậu thì cô ấy cũng có cái gì bên trong chứ không đơn giản chỉ là ngoại hình ạ. :D