Since I doubt that my hear-filled letter will be accepted and published in VnExpress, so I will post it here. My letter is addressed to the confusing men here, which started a whole discussion recently here
Dear men,
First, stop thinking about your ex. If you’re thinking about her, then she is not thinking about you. Period. Sorry. If she does think about you, it is not a good ‘thinking about you’, it is more like she thinks you are a moron and she regrets being with you.
Second, she is seeing other guys. I assure you she is sleeping with them too, in case you are having a quaint notion that she’s not. It’s ok, it is common. We all think that, once or twice in our life.
Third, yes she’s giving him blowjobs. I say this because once I was listening to a friend crying his heart out to me about how he couldn’t stop imagining his ex giving a blowjob to another guy. Trust me, she is doing it. She even does it the same way she did it to you. You could wish she is less enthusiastic with him than you, but she probably only know one way to do it – the same way you only have one way to kiss. Human is a simpler species than you think.
She could even be more enthusiastic with him, actually. I know it’s tough to swallow. It happens if she felt for a guy who doesn’t like her.
Anyway, the one you love is everywhere. Everything that you once were smitten and crazy about your ex can be found all around you. All you need is to forget about your ex, open up eyes and look.
Sorry for an obnoxious letter. I need something to write about today. Don’t want to lose my readers.
-k
You remind me of my own experience. Lucky! ^_^ I think it's good for both women than the man. :D
- Always trust your doubts.
- Never doubt your sense
- If a guy is inauthentic, for some reasons it can be acceptable. But if he’s inauthentic about his inauthenticity, that jerk is just hopeless. Run away from him. FAST!
- If a guy cheats, whether on you or with you, leave him. Cause it will definitely lead to nothing good.
Maybe because I'm not a blind girl in love. :D
Posted by: Phuong Thanh | June 05, 2009 at 02:56 AM
The' cung duoc.
Did u think about ur ex when writing those??? hehe
Posted by: Lan Quách | June 21, 2009 at 02:45 PM